First of all, most people around me, when chatting with them, they stop talking not because they listening what u say, they are waiting their turn to talk! I'm telling you how nice the potatoes i ate last night, then u replied me with, yayaya! the potatoes he/she ate last two weeks is nicer! then he/she starts talking about her last-two-weeks-potatoes. It made me feel like, nobody actually interested in my stories, what for i share my experiences with them? That's why i always lazy to talk about my stories, its so tired to complete my stories, it will just hang there. So better to listen than interrupting back other people's "last-two-weeks-potatoes" stories.
Next, people like to show off.. i really don't interested on how glories, fantastic, marvalous your life was. Really DON'T! Can't you just humble a lil bit? At least... won't make the people listening to you feel so annoy. By telling me how super you are, does not make you more super. The big SO WHAT will just appear in my head.
For the two reasons above, i basically don't talk much about myself to other people, and i really do appreciate those who are good in listening.
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