Off Day!

今天是 Off Day 啊！

因为 sem break 太闷太无聊的关系，我回去电影院工作了！

这次不是买戏票，是在卖食物的部门工作。是有点粗活啦，不过还好，可以练一练肌肉 :P

结交一些新朋友。哪里 part time 的大多是刚考完 SPM 的。我是老姐姐啊！

想必薪水很少，不过，在哪里工作总好过在家里颓废！

来来~ 让我形容一下我颓废的日子.. :P

从大学回家后，我在家 无所事事了 10 天。每天 3-4am 才睡觉，12-1pm才起床。刷面子书，玩神魔 COC，看一些书。没有看戏的心情（虽然我的电脑里有很多）。每天只跟亲爱的信息，可是他又忙工作，不能常常陪我。让我好不平衡！活得没有目的这样（我能感受到我退休后的感觉了！哈哈哈）。所以！我 pm 了我的 superviser。然后，第二天就可以上班了！Wohoo~~!! 我真的不能得空太久啊！注定劳碌命 (比起颓废，我更我喜欢劳碌)。

所以~ 就这样，在电影院工作了5 天啦！！！今天 off day。要好好充电，明天满电去工作！

19 Jan 15

"Even if people are wrong, they are right, because they coming from the limit of their own growth and experience, They cannot do better, or else they would be doing better in that moment. So for that moment, even if you want to correct them, they are right. By letting that be so, you here kept the flow of the communication open."

Indeed!
To help them, don't just win the conversation. Persuade them by listening to them. 
Open heart, embrace other people's view, who knows maybe ourselves are wrong.

My Hitch Hike experience. :P

I still remember the first time i hitch hike in my life!
Haha.. when I was in Rotorua, New Zealand.

In the morning, I walked from city center to The Red Woods ( a forest which full of red wood trees).
almost 4 to 5 km. took me around one hour to reach there.
quite tiring.

when I arrived. I need to walk again in Redwoods forest.
and i chose the shortest route, cause I've no more energy to walk there.

When i'm done, i decided to hitch hike back to city center!
haha.. because i don't want to walk anymoreee!!

I walked to the main road.
took me about 10 mins to shilly shally beside the road..
cause I'm really really paiseh to put my thumbs up to hitch a hike.

and then.. Finally..
i put my thumbs up~!
and start hitchhiking!!
yea.. many drivers ignore me....
Some dont even wanna see me, some wave at me.. Haha..
and i just keep smiling to the them...
haha.. feel so stupid actually..

after 7 mins... an old car approached to me...
the old man opened the window,
and asked, isit city center?
i said yes yes!!!
and then he asked me to jump in to his car.
wahhaaaaahaaa!!
successs!! ^^
so happpyyy!!!

before he go to the city.
he bring me to a recycle centre.
he dropped his recycle stuff that he collected to that centre.
i helped him...

His car playing very old style musics.
He chatted with me,

tell me about the news of Prince William born a new baby..
and told me later he gonna fetch his wife..
asked me about my trips in NZ.

and then. he dropped me at PaknSave. a supermarket.
i said thanks n bye to him.

he have a good heart.
Really happy to know him!
i hope he could stay happy n healthy!! ^^

18 Jan

当脾气来的时候，福气就走了。
人的优雅，关键在于控制自己的情绪。
用嘴巴伤人是最愚蠢的一种行为。
一个能控制住不良情绪的人，比一个能拿下一座城池的人更强大。
水深则流缓，语迟则人贵。
人们花了两年的时间学说话，却要花数十年的时间学会闭嘴。说，是一种能力；不说，是一种智慧。

source：http://www.china2551.org/Article/mrmy/201404/14638.html

“别把快乐的钥匙交给别人”

“别把快乐的钥匙交给别人”

这句话，说起来容易，要做难。

当你父母抛下你，男/女朋友甩掉你，朋友背叛你。

你还能开心吗？

他们原本就是快乐的根源。

17 Jan

Sometime, I wish I did not know the truth that i can't accept.

I wish that particular person keep lying to me.

I wish I never see the parts that other people hiding from me.

I just can't so fast adapt to the "real reality" that i did not used to know.

Time is needed to change my perception on the situation to a positive or a optimistic thing.

I always hope the world is as peaceful as what i expected.

But NO! NEVER!

Luckily, my memorization is bad enough to forget many unhappy experiences in my past.

Just... The time when the truth appears in front of me, that super uneasy feeling is very very terrifying!

 

What Make Me Hate Socialising

First of all, most people around me, when chatting with them, they stop talking not because they listening what u say, they are waiting their turn to talk! I'm telling you how nice the potatoes i ate last night, then u replied me with, yayaya! the potatoes he/she ate last two weeks is nicer! then he/she starts talking about her last-two-weeks-potatoes. It made me feel like, nobody actually interested in my stories, what for i share my experiences with them? That's why i always lazy to talk about my stories, its so tired to complete my stories, it will just hang there. So better to listen than interrupting back other people's "last-two-weeks-potatoes" stories.

Next, people like to show off.. i really don't interested on how glories, fantastic, marvalous your life was. Really DON'T! Can't you just humble a lil bit? At least... won't make the people listening to you feel so annoy. By telling me how super you are, does not make you more super. The big SO WHAT will just appear in my head.

For the two reasons above, i basically don't talk much about myself to other people, and i really do appreciate those who are good in listening.

模糊

总是在谷歌寻找答案，却忘了摸清自己真正的感觉是什么。
现况真的是我想要的吗？