19 Jan 15

"Even if people are wrong, they are right, because they coming from the limit of their own growth and experience, They cannot do better, or else they would be doing better in that moment. So for that moment, even if you want to correct them, they are right. By letting that be so, you here kept the flow of the communication open."

Indeed!
To help them, don't just win the conversation. Persuade them by listening to them. 
Open heart, embrace other people's view, who knows maybe ourselves are wrong.

My Hitch Hike experience. :P

I still remember the first time i hitch hike in my life!
Haha.. when I was in Rotorua, New Zealand.

In the morning, I walked from city center to The Red Woods ( a forest which full of red wood trees).
almost 4 to 5 km. took me around one hour to reach there.
quite tiring.

when I arrived. I need to walk again in Redwoods forest.
and i chose the shortest route, cause I've no more energy to walk there.

When i'm done, i decided to hitch hike back to city center!
haha.. because i don't want to walk anymoreee!!

I walked to the main road.
took me about 10 mins to shilly shally beside the road..
cause I'm really really paiseh to put my thumbs up to hitch a hike.

and then.. Finally..
i put my thumbs up~!
and start hitchhiking!!
yea.. many drivers ignore me....
Some dont even wanna see me, some wave at me.. Haha..
and i just keep smiling to the them...
haha.. feel so stupid actually..

after 7 mins... an old car approached to me...
the old man opened the window,
and asked, isit city center?
i said yes yes!!!
and then he asked me to jump in to his car.
wahhaaaaahaaa!!
successs!! ^^
so happpyyy!!!

before he go to the city.
he bring me to a recycle centre.
he dropped his recycle stuff that he collected to that centre.
i helped him...

His car playing very old style musics.
He chatted with me,

tell me about the news of Prince William born a new baby..
and told me later he gonna fetch his wife..
asked me about my trips in NZ.

and then. he dropped me at PaknSave. a supermarket.
i said thanks n bye to him.

he have a good heart.
Really happy to know him!
i hope he could stay happy n healthy!! ^^

18 Jan

当脾气来的时候，福气就走了。
人的优雅，关键在于控制自己的情绪。
用嘴巴伤人是最愚蠢的一种行为。
一个能控制住不良情绪的人，比一个能拿下一座城池的人更强大。
水深则流缓，语迟则人贵。
人们花了两年的时间学说话，却要花数十年的时间学会闭嘴。说，是一种能力；不说，是一种智慧。

source：http://www.china2551.org/Article/mrmy/201404/14638.html

“别把快乐的钥匙交给别人”

“别把快乐的钥匙交给别人”

这句话，说起来容易，要做难。

当你父母抛下你，男/女朋友甩掉你，朋友背叛你。

你还能开心吗？

他们原本就是快乐的根源。

17 Jan

Sometime, I wish I did not know the truth that i can't accept.

I wish that particular person keep lying to me.

I wish I never see the parts that other people hiding from me.

I just can't so fast adapt to the "real reality" that i did not used to know.

Time is needed to change my perception on the situation to a positive or a optimistic thing.

I always hope the world is as peaceful as what i expected.

But NO! NEVER!

Luckily, my memorization is bad enough to forget many unhappy experiences in my past.

Just... The time when the truth appears in front of me, that super uneasy feeling is very very terrifying!

 

What Make Me Hate Socialising

First of all, most people around me, when chatting with them, they stop talking not because they listening what u say, they are waiting their turn to talk! I'm telling you how nice the potatoes i ate last night, then u replied me with, yayaya! the potatoes he/she ate last two weeks is nicer! then he/she starts talking about her last-two-weeks-potatoes. It made me feel like, nobody actually interested in my stories, what for i share my experiences with them? That's why i always lazy to talk about my stories, its so tired to complete my stories, it will just hang there. So better to listen than interrupting back other people's "last-two-weeks-potatoes" stories.

Next, people like to show off.. i really don't interested on how glories, fantastic, marvalous your life was. Really DON'T! Can't you just humble a lil bit? At least... won't make the people listening to you feel so annoy. By telling me how super you are, does not make you more super. The big SO WHAT will just appear in my head.

For the two reasons above, i basically don't talk much about myself to other people, and i really do appreciate those who are good in listening.

模糊

总是在谷歌寻找答案，却忘了摸清自己真正的感觉是什么。
现况真的是我想要的吗？

请安息

十一月二十四，一位在新西兰认识的朋友，去世了。
其实他也不年轻了，应该有70++岁。
他总是那么活泼，热情，友善，乐观，爱笑...
给身边的人带来不少欢乐。
远到新西兰的我，遇见那么热情的他，好像遇到熟人一样，不感觉距离和陌生。
他和我分享过很多他的人生经验。
他竟然把我在马来西亚不太出名的家乡的名字记起来了，叫 Kuantan。 他还常常说他以后来马来西亚一定要来 Kuantan. (天啊，我还记得他把 Kuantan 读到很奇怪的读音。)
我承认我对他一度在我的面子书一直留言感到厌烦。但现在我希望他继续留言，好过永远都不会在我的 post 留言了。

他，应该被那癌症折磨了一段时间吧？听说他是"安乐"地离去，我还有点安慰。
但愿爱旅行爱交朋友的你，上了天堂后可以更快乐。
你并没有离去，因为你永远活在大家的记忆里。

我在离开 Napier 前和 Paul 的最后合影。

Course Night 2014 - Halloween

Course Night. 是一年一度，联系系院里所有华人的晚宴。没有种族歧视。只是纯粹的联谊活动。

今年，轮到我们这一班森林之家的二年生筹办这晚宴。可怜的是，今年的二年生只有那区区的5个人，要办一个晚宴并不容易。我，身为副主席。好像变成主席那样了，我不是要串什么，只是因为我的主席在办活动方面经验比较少吧。所以很多东西都由我来做主。交通，财政，联络学长姐弟妹，流程等..都是我一手包办。哈哈。但其他委员当然也有帮忙一起做啦。只是，我想说。真的是有点压力的。

我人生第一次参与的万圣节为主题的晚宴，竟然是自家人筹办的。哈哈！脑里充满了很多万圣节的 ideas。再加上我们筹委的人不多，讨论或决定一样东西变得很容易。整个晚宴，能让我们为所欲为。xD #likeaboss。超爽的！

另外，我衷心的感谢赞助我们的教授们。他们也很热心的帮助我们！我想说，那么好的教授，只有我的系院有吧？哈哈哈。

还有还有！就是学长姐们，也很乐意的伸出援手。

至于学弟妹们呢，是新生吗。对森林之家归属感不深，不怎么合作是理所当然的。不过当然会有几个里外的学弟妹，带领他们。我也很感激他们。

筹备了两个月的科系晚宴，终于落幕了。突然感觉空空的。办得好不好，已经没办法再追究。希望下一年的筹委们能办得更好！

有点点的遗憾，就是当晚没有什么拍到照片。我不管！明年我要拍多多照片，拟补回今年的遗憾。XD

Door Gift

舞台

当晚稀有的照片。xD